Drink
Bemelmans Bar
The Carlyle, on 76th. Murals by the man who wrote Madeline, a piano from the early evening, and the only sensible place on the Upper East Side to begin or end a night like that one.

May 1970 · Metropolitan Museum, New York
An invitation controlled by one person and one institution. Nobody sells a seat to this, and anyone who says otherwise is selling something else.
Drink
The Carlyle, on 76th. Murals by the man who wrote Madeline, a piano from the early evening, and the only sensible place on the Upper East Side to begin or end a night like that one.
Eat
Below street level on 55th, and reliably the hardest small room in Manhattan. Steak, martinis, and a door policy that has not softened.
Explore
The Costume Institute show the gala opens runs for months afterwards. Seeing it properly, in daylight, without a thousand people in it, is the better experience.
Dates, tiers and price come back together, and only once the route is confirmed. Nothing here is held until you ask for it.
Ask for Met Gala